Friday, August 29, 2008

The LONG story



Story Time:)

Let me set the stage. We have been in a theater for 2 hours being briefed on Japanese Transportation. I have only ridden on one train/subway that I can remember. That was in Washington DC where everything is in blessed English. Florida isn't big on trains and subways:) I am taking notes and paying close attention to every word this Japanese woman was imparting like it was life or death. After being given our "lost" cards we are told see you tomorrow. Mind you I am still on base not near a train station. After stopping at Community Bank and getting to the main gate I am ready. Ok I can follow the blue road to the station. I find the blue road well nicknamed since the road has blue flecks in it and the side walk has blue lines. I am walking along taking in the dreary soggy sights when I realize since this was the first station we talked about hours ago I am not sure if I remember what the entrance looked like. No big deal I am sure I can figure it out. After only one detour - I headed into a bank thinking it was the station. Hey to my credit the ATMS looked a lot like the ticket kiosks at the station and there must have been 8 in a row.


Ok so I am at Yokosuka-Chuo Station. I am armed with my notes standing at the ticket kiosk like a really tourist nerd. I start off the right way pushing the English button! I then figure out on the map how far away Yokohama is and how much it was going to cost. Then I hit the transfer line to choose the appropriate yen amount. Yeah it wasn't there. I stepped away from the kiosk to look at my notes - No help there. I tried again same issue being an ignorant foreigner:) I head up to the man in the booth. I know a way to make it easy on myself the rest of the time I am here. I wanted a PASMO (best example it is like a SUNPASS in FL) I say "Pasmo Kudasai" They say please after what they want here in Japan. The man says yes yes and takes me back to the kiosk which now seem to have metallic slanted eyes laughing at me. We easily get my pass. Now I never have to try and figure out which ticket to buy for where I want to go. I do have to make sure I continue to put yen on my PASMO or I will be stuck. The laughing was not actually being done by the kiosk but by two Japanese girls in their teens. I didn't mind because I am sure I looked slightly retarded.


I was just happy that I was through the ticket wicket that was farther than a lot of people in my orientation class. Seeing the rain many decided not to go out. I was baby free and needed to have some experience before bringing my sweet boy.


At 10:45am I stepped onto a train bound for Yokohama a 24 minute train ride. As I entered the train I scanned the area I needed to process the who, what, where when of the situation. As I did this, a Japanese gentleman motioned me to the area in front of him. He then pulled a seat down and held it until I sat. I thanked with with "arigatou" This put a huge smile on his face. I had been told that if we try even one or two words in Japanese the locals are thrilled. They may even tell us we have great Japanese - of course we would have no clue what they were saying. This happened to me. I rode in the clean silence that is Japanese public transportation. No one talks, there may be a few whispers, and eye contact usually does not happen. Nobody wants to bother anyone. Ha wait until Dylan is on the train - he doesn't know quiet. Gau-Gau may have gotten him to whisper but I haven't. At another stop a Japanese lady gets on and sits next to me. I turn towards her and say "Ohayo Gozaimasu" which is Good Morning. She replied back. Then the gentleman that helped me looked at this lady and said who knows what. She looks back at me and smiles. I am openly watching their exchange. So she says something which sounded really long. I just smiled back like the lady who had no clue - what do I mean like I was that lady. Then guessing they may be asking about my Japanese I held my fingers up to show small. At this they both laugh. Back to silence. A few stops before mine my new Japanese friend gets off saying Bye Have a nice day, Bye. This left me pondering the situation. Was she like me and only knew Hi, Bye and a few other English words or was it very important to maintain comfortable silence? Whatever it may be I was happy to have partially interacted with a Japanese person.

I had arrived at Yokohama. I exited the train and thought easy enough. Wait one second nothing was in English once I left the station. In the stations you will see English under the Japanese on the main sign hanging over head. It works you can figure things out, but I was now in the real Japan. I looked up and up and up sky rises for as far as I could see in front of me, behind me and to both sides. How was I supposed to find Tokyu Hands. The print out I had was no help! I spy ... oh look water and what looked to be a shopping high rise. I made my way via pedestrian crosswalks to Bay Quarter. Remember all this walking was done with an umbrella not helpful for visibility. I look around Bay Quarter there were a lot of shops, but I know from my papers that Toyku Hands is a stand alone. I am also trying to decipher a map from fleet and family services that is as fuzzy as the snow channels on a black and white t.v. I was surrounded by Japanese businessmen. This got me thinking. Yokohama is a large city, there are numerous stops, maybe I am at the wrong stop. Back to the train station I went. After consulting my English train map, I had to change to another train line, JR. Alright next stop I was off the train and still in Yokohama.

This is the stop where I took pictures. The freedom of being an American tourist in Japan is it is obvious so there is no point in not taking pictures. There were times yesterday when I thought maybe I had really come from outer space and had green skin. I did get a few of those strange looks but not many. I found it funny and was not in the least bit offended. I thought it most humorous when it was on the train and I would catch the person openly looking. Oh boy their eyes darted away so fast! I tried once again to understand yet another map. This was the large one outside the station. Don't know why I bothered. I didn't see Tokyu Hands so it was time for lunch.

Come to find out the restaurant I chose meant "Garlic Restaurant"- Ninniku-Ya Goemon that was quite fitting since I love my garlic. I did have an option of choosing a western restaurant, but alas it was a day for adventure. Besides I had packed a power bar in my purse. Ok come on, I can be adventurous but I don't need to be hungry. It was an unneeded back up plan! Outside the restaurant there were display cases with the sample food. I had heard about Japanese pizza. Granted what I had heard didn't always sounds so tasty but I wanted to try some anyways. Some I had heard of during the brief - mayo, shrimp and cheese & squid, shrimp and zucchini. Anyone hungry now? In the display case, I spied one with something green, something yellow and something beige. I figured I would give it a try like I said I had my back up plan. Entered the restaurant was greeted nicely and seated right by the entrance. I didn't know what to think of that - everyone who came in got to check out the Gajin trying to eat with chopsticks. I started to look over the menu in Japanese but figured I would still go with the pizza. Motioning for the waitress we walked out to the cases. I am sure they get that a lot. I pointed at the pizza saying Kudasai Pizza. At this she shook her head no and said dinner. No pizza for lunch folks. Once seated again she handed me an English menu. I love how they wait for you to slaughter their native language. I kept up the Japanese. After lunch as I was checking out and paying in yen I tried to say delicious about my lunch. I said oishii - I had been told that unlike in English when there is a double letter each one is pronounced separately in Japanese. Ok can you just imagine how I sounded saying delicious! Yeah the hostess looked at me rather shocked like I had asked to kiss her mom. I knew at that point I had to make her understand so I busted out the charades. I smiled really big, gave her two thumbs up, said very good (in English) and continued to nod (oh I know you all love that part). Finally a huge smile spread across her face and she said oishii the correct way then she proceeds to say I am so glad. Are you kidding me - would someone just greet me in English. Blow my socks of saying Hi and then when I say something back to you in English do the cool nod and smile like I do.
It was time to do some shopping. Even though I had given up on finding Toyku Hands part two of the mission still needed accomplishing. My dear mother's birthday is coming up. I am thrilled to say I found her something but since it is currently en route I can't tell you about it. At the information desk at the mall I asked in Japanese where the Toyku Hands was located. It was then that I learned it was at my first stop after all. O-well what can you do.
At 2pm I started to walk back to the train station thinking I was giving myself plenty of time to get back to Yokosuka and pick up my son at 4pm. I was doing great swiping my Pasmo card, taking pictures of the locals because no one said I couldn't and why not I am a tourist. I choose to time my rides so that if I can't understand the Japanese announcement I will know when to get off. We were 1 minute until my estimated time of arriving in Yokosuka-Chuo when we pulled into a stop. I didn't hear an announcement, but a lot of people got off the train. Scary thing about that is I had been warned that sometimes you will not understand the announcement (go figure) saying this train is going into Zushi for maintenance. It has happened numerous times that a foreigner will find themselves inside of a maintenance dock because they failed to get off when everyone else did. Believe me if everyone leaves a train I am out of there. Granted I won't know which train to get back on but we will deal with that when it comes. Back to wondering where I was. I asked a younger Japanese man who after taking out his head phones and me asking again shakes his head yes. Now I thought the yes head shake was universal maybe I was wrong. I got off onto the platform. As I start to turn away out of the corner of my eye I see the guy start to come towards to door. I turn around just as the doors close and the train pulls away. major miscommunication there. I think he was trying to get me back in but didn't have time. I was not at Yokosuak-Chuo. I head up the steps to find someone to ask. I spotted a uniform and in hindsight I think it was just some uniform but not a train depot attendant. I asked him and he said platform one. Ok I was set. I hoped on the next train when it arrives and away I went. I began to realize I had no idea where I was going. So a few stops later I asked a gentleman as he was getting up Yokosuka-Chuo? He must have felt really bad or I was really lost. I think it was the latter. He missed his stop and rode with me to the next depot. It was in the boondocks (if they have those in Japan) The platform was outside, it was he and I two others and the monster crickets. Taking me to the map he showed where we were off on some side line in the map. We then counted the number of stops until I was to get off once I transferred back onto the main line that is. Oh my goodness it really hit me then. As the crickets chirped and the heavy Japanese humidity tried to push me down I realized I was so fortunate that I asked this man who used broken Engrish to help before he got off. I would have been riding to Timbuktu and from this side of the world I might have actually arrived. Lacking the same spunk, and missing home, friends and English I finally arrived back to Yokosuka-Chuo. Just to let you know I kept a running count of the stops on my fingers on the way back. I then booked it through the rain trying to get to the base and my sweet son. I was 10 minutes late. I sure am glad I gave myself to 2 hours to take a detour home.
Therefore in the picture below if you see an emotionally, mentally and physically exhausted woman who was so grateful to be back on base where at least most people spoke English you would be correct. The Japanese triple charge Gatorade was helpful but I know who really helped me home. The blessing in it all is that I truly had a peace the whole time even when I was concerned and a little overwhelmed. I am so thankful for His deep abiding peace!


Orientation Days 3 & 4

The adventure began on a warm rainy morning forget a dark and stormy night I sure would have stayed home. For those interested in the adventure: round one Kim the Gaikoku jin versus Japan's Public Transportation see the bottom of the post.
This first picture is a man hole cover but it very well maybe a underground fire hydrant. In my briefings, I was told of underground fire hydrants though this one doesn't look like any on the power point. I guess the Japanese fire departments didn't know about Dalmatians as a pet option so they adopted an......anime squid? Entrance to the Keikyu Line at Yokosuka-Chuo Station
I doubt you can see the train map in this picture can you? No worries if you saw it up close it wouldn't mean much more than this picture:) But at least you could count the stations and see how long it takes in between them. This comes in handy later.
Below the oh so helpful map are the ticket kiosks each with an English button!
Here comes a my train
LUNCH TIME


















Crash course in the use of chopsticks - I have tried them one other time in my life. My 21st birthday. Couldn't do it then and never tried again until yesterday.

This first dish =something - that was tasty. My guess would be some type of lettuce, cooked pork, raw or lightly steamed zucchini and white curl deals wrapped in a Vietnamese clear wrap











Curry and Rice with Beef and Eggplant the lunch I ordered which is the second picture. How cute is the garlic dish? I ate this with the spoon provided. Not sure about the etiquette of that move. I did look around and saw another "local looking" woman eating her rice and "stuff on the rice" with both her spoon and chopsticks.














Pictures from Yokohama where I ended up shopping. I changed the pictures to black and white because I felt they looked better. It was a drizzling nasty day which just made my pictures all drab.
During our culture shock brief the gentleman from fleet and family support told us about Engrish. Pops had mentioned to me he thought the Japanese didn't use l's well he was correct again:) There is no l sound in their vocabulary guess I am Kimbery and my son Dyan. I am not sure I like our names as they sound without the ls. Along with telling us about Engrish (there is a website if you care to look it up) he mentioned the Japanese love using English even though they rarely know what it means. Sometime they have shirts on with a random listing of words like Pleasant Green Hope I Am. I made that one up but will keep my open for a real one. Here is what I found













The next two pictures are from a furniture store in the mall. I realize that as a people the Japanese are smaller in stature but the couches and beds are so very low.












(I am still working on tell you all about the trip. Being my first big adventure out there is a lot to share, but it is getting late. I have been dealing with allergies since I got here:( and have a pounding headache so it is off the computer so I can get to bed )
Because of my competitive spirit round two is tomorrow weather permitting!









Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Orientation Day Two

Today was much more interesting. Our orientation is called AOB/ICR which stands for area orientation brief and inter-cultural relations. Today was the ICR part which I thoroughly enjoyed. I am a lover of history therefore all of the speakers in one way or another piqued my interest in Japan. This is due to the fact that many of the manners, attitudes, traditions and habits of the Japanese people are deeply rooted in their fascinating history. With a renewed sense of adventure they are sending us off on a field trip tomorrow. In the morning, we meet back at the theater where the briefs have been held all week, are briefed on the public transportation system and then walked down the blue road to the train station. At that point we are released like new chicks pushed from the nest. I am sure there will be many of us that fall flat, but "they" know this may happen. Kindly they will be providing us with a green card or two if we choose to hang one around our neck in front and back:) The green cards are not what you normally think of when you hear green card - these are potential life savers. On one side printed in English is the phrase "I am lost please take me to Yokosuka Naval Base" on the other it is printed in Japanese. At least we hope that is what it says in Japanese and not something about the stupid Gaikoku jin (pronounced "guy jean" -it means foreigner) from Yokosuka Naval Base:) Ah to trust
I originally wanted to head out and sight see, since I will be child free, taking time for pictures from all angles of a gorgeous shrine or temple . Alas the weather is projected to be windy and rainy. Great day to learn how to travel around Japan. I have chosen to try and get to Tokyu Hands a 8 story craft store. I will have to change trains multiple times but I am praying the motivation of an 8 story Michaels will keep me going. I already know there will be tons of praying tomorrow as I will be without a doubt thrust out of my comfort zone. I have practiced a few Japanese words and will report back tomorrow to let you know how many I had the opportunity to use.
This will be my second outing. Though the first was a short walk, 1 block, to a mall down the street from the base. It was a 6 story mall - fascinating! I promise to tell and get pictures up from that mini outing.
I am off to get rest before the train adventure

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Orientation Day One


Ok so obviously I have changed my mind and am posting about orientation. I do promise you I will get back to the first two weeks of our life here in Japan because they have been very eventful. Truly the reason I am posting about orientation is because I believe it may be a shorter post than the trip over here. I don't want to get too far behind the adventures just keep coming.
To stay with the theme of my day I am going to do a lot of bullet points. Today was full of mini briefing from numerous different services here on base. My favorite part by far was the introduction and welcome to Yokosuka by the Admiral. He is very charismatic. You all know I love my pictures and he won my attention with the constant slide show of pictures he and his wife have taken while stationed here in Japan. I pray I can get half as many wonderful ones.
* There are 5 thousand Japanese Nationals that work along side of us here on base (when I say base I am referring to main base Yokosuka)
* Ships - I was sad to learn but do understand the reasoning, that the ships stationed here in the 7th Fleet are out of port and deployed more than they are home. He guesstimated for us that the GW will be gone 70% of each year. The other ships will be gone 50% of the time. He said that because we are forward deployed the ships have to be on a higher level of readiness Navy talk for they have to be ready to head out in a moments notice. Praise the Lord we only have a year. A year can be a splendid adventure any longer would prolong the torture of being without my honey. A couple reasons our sailors have to be ready - maybe I shouldn't say not sure if I should or not. So how about think about our geography and who some of our wonderful neighbors are.
* There are 6 U.S. Military bases in Japan. Now think of California that is the size of Japan but with 128 million people (2007 population report)
* I remember having mentioned to numerous people that Japan does not have a military which is the result of their attack on us in WWII. I found out that I am correct except they are allowed to have self defense units, but nothing that could be offensive. We are here to provide protection and offensive action if need be. Here is an example of a title of someone working in the Japanese Self Defense "Japanese Maritime Chief of Self Defense" He does exist and works across the bay from us.
* The city of Yokosuka has around 4 hundred thousand people we make up 30 thousand of that number
Being S.O.F.A. (Status of Forces Agreement) sponsored as soon as I step off the base I am 100% in Japanese jurisdiction
* One of my favorite presentations was by the fire department. As you will find out later we are good friends at this point:) The speaker was a Japanese national. Come to find out all the firemen are Japanese. He was so cute (as in accent, small stature, trying to be funny) NOT ATTRACTIVE. He read his whole briefing in English. As he was reading he would read out the jokes and fail to pause or stop at the punchline. I laughed anyways because his delivery or lack there of was Hilarius and the jokes were kind of funny
* 10% of the worlds earthquakes occur in Japan
*Yokosuka main base is susceptible to Tsunamis. At the briefing we were told the towers (I live in one) were built to with stand the force of the wave.
*Cyclone season lasts from June to November. Generally 10 strikes on mainland Japan each typhoon season. I will be able to tell you more about how that warning system works as well when I go back to tell you about my first few days here.
I hope you haven't been too bored. I guess if you were you never made it to this point:) Just think you only got the interesting facts I listened to briefings from 7:45am to 4pm.
The big news is ......... I bought tickets for Dylan and I to enjoy our Labor Day (9-1) at Mount Fuji. I can't wait to go and then share the experience with you all.
Good Night another long day ahead of me

Monday, August 25, 2008

Power Blogging

As you may have noticed I have been power blogging. Time is getting away from me and I really want to share all about our lives thus far in Japan. Tomorrow is 2 weeks that we have been calling Japan "home". I start an onbase mandatory orientation class tomorrow. This class lasts 4 days 8 hours a day. So the next blog when I get a chance will be on our plane flight.
Here are a few more pictures of my precious extended family before we move on to Japan


Oh Yeah and little Man being so grown up. Here he is trying and being successful once feeding himself with an adult spoon.

Please excuse the no shirt. I forgot a bib and we were heading to see family in that outfit after breakfast. I promise he will learn his manners and always wear a shirt at the table:)

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Beach Lovin' Boy

Dylan and his cousin Kaelyn enjoying Saint Augustine Beach. Dylan did find that he loves the sand even eating it - ugh can't you just feel the grit in between your teeth when I write that. Ah the ignorant bliss of being a child



Near the pier at St Augustine Beach their is a fountain park. An area for the children to play where there are fountains in all sizes and spray out at different angles. We found one just Dylan's size Family Picnic at Palm Coast. I wanted to do a picnic at the beach before we left for Japan. My dear parents and younger sister humored me:) We had a wonderful picnic thanks mom. Dylan LOVES every aspect of the beach - sand, sun and surf. His Aunt Jo and I took him down to the sand where he played then we decided to head to the water. Dylan was not scared in the least. He held my hand as well as Aunt Jo's as we walked right down to the waterline. We stood their letting the water swirling around our feet and Dylan's knees. He loved it! He bent over splashing in the water for a bit then plop in he went. He did look up with surprise at this new sensation, but since we were all smiles he was still good to go.
Due to the timing Dylan got his bath outside at the beach (it was at the Palm Coast building so it was private). This way he was ready for bed when we arrived home. At first the water from the hose was a little too chilly and he wasn't sure what to think. Buy after that initial what is going on look he had more fun. Check it out:)






I didn't want to title this blog Beach Boy, but Dylan sure does love the beach. Come to find out he likes the Beach Boys as well. Here in Japan in our little apartment which will one day be decorated like our beach vacation apartment, we have been dancing to the beach boys. It is awesome! I put on some Beach music to help lighten the dreary rainy days and little man starts to groove! Some of his favorites are "Little Deuce Coupe", "Barbara Ann", "Good Vibrations" and "Sloop John B" He sure has more rhythm than his ole mama but that isn't saying much - hee hee




Dinner Out in Saint Augustine

Ladies night out with Jadran and Dylan:)







Random Florida Pictures


Gau-Gau and Dylan stretching their legs at a rest stop on our way from Virginia to Florida. This was the 24th of July Dylan's actually first birthday. What a great way to spend it in a car all day!




Here I had shooed gnats away from Dylan's face and as you can tell he thought it was hilarious. We then of course made a mini game out of it before we headed back on the Interstate. There is no better sound than that of your child's laughter.
Still playing with his whale balloon from his party
Uncle Rory with Trey

Dylan had a ball with his cousin Kaelyn who stayed with us at Gau-Gau and Pops house a couple times during our visit



My dear sisters (above) Joanna and (below) Nikki
Nikki, Michael and Kaelyn before lunch at the Reef for lunch

Dylan loves Chara.

Daddy was introducing the two of them but from there Dylan and she became great friends. Towards to end of our visit Dylan would crawl out to the laundry room to see Chara without anyone with him (I was watching close by though)

Big Boy trying to brush his teeth on his own.
Yes we were in the living - don't ask! Many things are different when you are on vacation